October 2026 Update

Kia ora and welcome to the Listening to Families October Update.

Listening to families continues to grow, and we are incredibly grateful to the families and experts who have contributed their time, expertise and lived experience to this Kaupapa. The generosity of the people who agree to share their knowledge and experiences is what makes these resources possible.

Currently we have 33 topics covering mental and physical health with 609 video clips and 60 podcasts available to families looking for answers to questions posed about their child’s mental and physical health and wellbeing. Listening to Families content is available in multiple formats. We also have resources to provide additional information to support the topic e.g. subtitles provide content for those with hearing issues. For each topic there is

  • Overview PDF as well as a full transcript PDF
  • Video – individual Q&A clips – with subtitles on the Website and You Tube
  • Video - continuous play of Q&A clips – with subtitles on the Website and You Tube
  • Podcast – multiple platforms

What’s New

Our new website is live! https://www.listeningtofamilies.co.nz/

We now have a new Listening to Families website, which brings our growing collection of videos and podcasts together in one easy-to-access place. The new site is much more visually appealing and easier to navigate, with resources grouped into relevant topics so people can quickly find the information that is most useful to them. We’ve also added some new features to make exploring and accessing our resources even easier. We hope this will make Listening to Families more accessible for families, schools, health professionals and anyone looking for practical information and lived-experience perspectives.

New video series – Bullying https://listeningtofamilies.co.nz/bullying

We have also developed a new video series focused on bullying. The series explores bullying from a range of perspectives and provides practical information for families and those supporting children and young people.

New video series – Resilience https://www.listeningtofamilies.co.nz/resilience/resilience

Our new resilience series looks at what resilience actually means for children and young people, and how the adults around them can support its development. As with all of our Listening to Families resources, the focus is on providing information that is practical, accessible and grounded in real experiences.

In works

Two New Video series’ coming soon and expected before the end of the year

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

Filming and editing of the OCD videos are well underway. We hope to have them up for viewing on the website by International OCD week 11-17 October 2026.

Sleep

Next off the block will be Sleep. It is a common area of concern and can place families under considerable strain. Work is currently under way to identify the questions that parents/ grandparents and carers of children with sleep issues have and gain an expert answer with practical solutions to the questions asked. Watch out for this series before the end of the year.

What’s next? - Expanding Listening to Families Reach – Volunteers required

We are now looking to expand our small team of four and have been joined by a volunteer administrator, whose role it will be to build a team of contact volunteers who will touch base on a one-to-one level with community health and wellbeing agencies, pre/primary /secondary and composite schools to engage, build relationships and expand community knowledge of the Listening to families website to achieve our objective to make a difference – one family at a time. If you think you may have time to assist with this volunteer role and would like to know more about the role and what it entails, please contact Kate King via email hello@listeningtofamilies.co.nz

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Resilience Topic Release

New Listening to Families conversation explores resilience

How can I help my child feel safe in an uncertain world? Should I tell my child about difficult things happening in the world? How do I prepare my child for hard things without creating fear?

When so much of what happens in the world is beyond our control, many parents and caregivers are unsure how much to share with their children, and how to help them cope.

Listening to Families has brought together a clinical psychologist and a Mana Ake kaimahi to explore some of the questions families may have about building resilience in children.

The conversation includes Catherine Gallagher, Clinical Psychologist, START, and Melanie Winter, Mana Ake Kaimahi.

Together, they explore six key questions:

● How can I help my child feel safe in an uncertain world?

● Should I talk to my child about difficult things happening in the world?

● What if my child sees something upsetting online or on the news?

● My child is anxious or fixated on scary news, what should I do?

● Why does my autistic or ADHD child react so strongly to news or change?

● How do I prepare my child for hard things without creating fear?

Watch the full series on our Website or YouTube channel:

Website: www.listeningtofamilies.co.nz/resilience

YouTube: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLHKl_SYHZPNU

Or listen to it as a podcast:

Spotify: open.spotify.com/episode/6oBAZ7RhBCgZzeio43n53a

Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/resilience/id1813772763?i=1000790997401

Bullying Topic Release

New Listening to Families conversation explores bullying

What is bullying? Why do people bully others? Why don't children always tell when they're being bullied? And what can parents and caregivers do when a child says they are being bullied?

Bullying is an important issue for children, young people and families. It can have significant effects and leave families unsure about what to do or where to turn for support.

Listening to Families has brought together a local parent and people working across child and adolescent mental health, psychology, education, family support and youth policing to explore some of the questions families may have about bullying.

The conversation is facilitated by Erin-Kate, a local parent, and includes Uri Guy, Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist, Katie Hoek, Child and Family Psychologist, Greg Jansen, Restorative Schools, Liz Riley, Mana Ake, and Dee Smith, Youth Aid Officer with NZ Police.

Together, they explore six key questions:

● What is bullying?

● Why do people bully others?

● What are the short and long term impacts of bullying?

● Why don't kids always tell?

● How does bullying present in the online world?

● My child has come home and said they are being bullied. What should I do?

Watch the full series on our Website or YouTube channel:

Website: www.listeningtofamilies.co.nz/bullying/bullying

YouTube: youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWD_pcUisYuE&si=6IB5mHKYsOc8s9kn

Or listen to it as a podcast:

Spotify: open.spotify.com/episode/2lfBb83RECdaoz1hNo0iuj?si=RkIrcgptQEmOLZeLqGASPA

Apple Podcasts: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bullying/id1813772763?i=1000789384481

Kidsfirst Kindergartens

The Listening to Families team have been working with Kidsfirst Kindergartens. On 16 April the team met with the 65 Head Teachers from across Canterbury, Central Otago, and the West Coast.

The Head Teachers identified a number of topics that were of concern to the families attending their kindergartens. The Listening to Families team will produce videos and podcasts on the top five topics over the balance of 2026. The topics are:

  • Toileting (under 5's)
  • Self-regulation
  • Big emotions
  • Oral language development
  • Sleep

Table talkers, cards and posters

Increasing awareness of the Listening to Families videos and podcasts is a key objective for the team. Table talkers, cards, and posters have been developed and are available for anyone keen to help raise awareness of Listening to Families.

These materials have been provided to each of the 65 kindergartens. You can download the poster using the link below.

A Listening to Families table talker in a clear acrylic stand on a table, next to a holder of pull-out cards. The sign reads 'Families have questions. We have real answers.'
Download the poster